First, Happy Valentine’s Day! I hope today finds you, number one, loving and approving of yourself; and, number two, having someone special to love and love you back!
As for me, I have to say that time has been getting the best of me this past week! Lots of changes going on around here. All positive, don’t worry!
I was really happy to get back to doing some quick tutorials, which are really my favorite thing about blogging; but I have missed blogging about my deep-thinking shenanigans, too!
I wrote the title of this post, literally, about three weeks ago, and have been itching to get back to it ever since. I’d love to share mine and hear your thoughts on this topic, and tips and tricks to hold on to what must be let go. Because, really, in the grand scheme of things, nothing is under our control. There is birth; there is life; there is death. It is all a natural cycle – independent of our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. And we all have to cope with some aspect of this cycle at one time or another.
I remember when I was preparing for the birth of my first child. One of my sweet friends, who is also an alternative healthcare provider, told me that the biggest thing to remember during labor was that I would have to relax and just “let go.” She said that that would afford me a much more relaxed and quicker labor. She said that symbolically asthmatics (which I am) have trouble letting go. (Something about holding on to precious air in a subconscious fear that this breath may be your last.) It made perfect sense to me, and I’ve applied this thought process to many things in the last five years.
(For the record, my first labor was 21 hours of natural intensity and insanity; and then three hours of glorious epidural-induced calm. Letting go was HARD!)
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