Well, in five minutes it will officially be Easter Sunday. It has been a crazy day around here. Matt and I took shifts hanging out with the kids so that the other could get done what we had planned for today. Matt was out working on our in-progress chicken coop during the day – the chicks are coming in less than two weeks! (More on that later.) – and I am now on the night shift taking care of details for dinner and festivities for tomorrow.
In the perfect marriage of being busy and procrastinating, I had pretty much nothing done for Easter until after dinner this evening. If I’m honest, I actually just called/texted dinner guests tonight as to the time to arrive tomorrow. I know, I know – I’m the definition of classy (and so are my dollar store Easter dinner paper plates!).
Oh, my goodness! Not only do I hope (and pray) that Spring is real, but I really, really – we really, really need it to appear! Thanks to my good friend Zhong Gan Ling (disclaimer: I don’t use this brand; I get whatever my acupuncturist carries), cupping, along with some other natural/dietary helpers, we are finally nearing the end of acute bronchitis and sinus infections.
First it was A.W. with a couple scary asthma-like attacks, and then it went right down the line. A.S. got it; I got it; and, finally, Matt is the last of us to get it, too. I am sick of being sick and the worry that goes along with nursing the family back to health! Spring!? I need you!
First, Happy Valentine’s Day! I hope today finds you, number one, loving and approving of yourself; and, number two, having someone special to love and love you back!
As for me, I have to say that time has been getting the best of me this past week! Lots of changes going on around here. All positive, don’t worry!
I was really happy to get back to doing some quick tutorials, which are really my favorite thing about blogging; but I have missed blogging about my deep-thinking shenanigans, too!
I wrote the title of this post, literally, about three weeks ago, and have been itching to get back to it ever since. I’d love to share mine and hear your thoughts on this topic, and tips and tricks to hold on to what must be let go. Because, really, in the grand scheme of things, nothing is under our control. There is birth; there is life; there is death. It is all a natural cycle – independent of our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. And we all have to cope with some aspect of this cycle at one time or another.
I remember when I was preparing for the birth of my first child. One of my sweet friends, who is also an alternative healthcare provider, told me that the biggest thing to remember during labor was that I would have to relax and just “let go.” She said that that would afford me a much more relaxed and quicker labor. She said that symbolically asthmatics (which I am) have trouble letting go. (Something about holding on to precious air in a subconscious fear that this breath may be your last.) It made perfect sense to me, and I’ve applied this thought process to many things in the last five years.
(For the record, my first labor was 21 hours of natural intensity and insanity; and then three hours of glorious epidural-induced calm. Letting go was HARD!)
Hope everyone had a great New Year! I didn’t even do anything, and I still feel like I’m struggling to get into the swing of things! It’s part my crazy-hyper-crafty personality and partly my crazy-hyper-crafty (where’d they get that from?) kids — and, I suppose, partly the chaos that comes with the holidays. I wanted to pop in and reveal what’s been going on in my world, because there’s a lot. Continue reading